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I used to interpret the telling ",Marriage is not for puny boys", to mean puny boys in terms of age, until I visited a female mentor that has been in marriage for 47 years.

I asked, so what is the secret of your over 47 years in marriage?

Beaming, she retorted, My son, the expectations you bring into marriage will either spell its doom or success. I married my hubby without expectations of loving his money or buying cars for me, but with time, my patience, hard work and God-fearing attitude yielded results of getting cars, houses, taking care of our children and all that.

You see, if a married lady keeps on nagging in the house, she thrusts the spirit of her hubby from the home. If you make the man unhappy, you make the house awkward.

So, I married without high expectations from my spouse but simply to make him glad always.

Yes, for the past 47 years, I would be the very first to get up from bed and the last to go back to bed. I bath the kids, do devotions with them, prepare breakfast for my spouse and boil hot water for him to bath. I metal his clothes he would take to work, smooch him and wish him the best in his daily endeavours.

I asked my old woman, so then what does the man do in come back? She laughed all heart and hearty and replied, You see, this is the mistake you youthfull ones make in marriage.

YOU DO SOMETHING FOR YOUR Hubby OR Wifey AND EXPECT SAME Prize FROM HIM OR HER, THIS IS WRONG!

When it becomes your attitude to only please your spouse or wifey always, the other person responds naturally. Indeed, if nothing touches the palm tree, it doesn’t rattle.

She continued, my son, never carry ",how rich or poor your family is", into marriage. After all, you knew very well the status of your family and determined to marry that man or woman.

Love only compels/leads would-be couples into marriage but it doesn’t sustain marriage. Rather, understanding, patience, communication and most importantly, forgiveness sustain every marriage. High expectations are the symptoms of divorce in marriages.

Sometimes you hear, I want to marry a mother, a business playmate, God fearing person etc. You cannot get all your expectations in one person. With time and depending on your relationship, you may get some. So minimise your expectations in marriage.

To cut the long story brief, as too many cooks spoil the broth, she concluded on the mistakes a duo should fight back at all cost in marriage:

1) Never say you have made your wifey or hubby somebody from a nobody. It hurts. God only used you as an agent for transformation, give the glory to God.

Two) Let the man be head of the home no matter the financial, economic, physical and emotional health situation prevailing in the duo’s life whilst the woman exercises diligence in the use of the tongue.

Trio) Having children should not be the ultimate objective in marriage. They are given to enhance your marriage. When God delays in providing you a child, have every reason to live a glad marital life.

Four) Hook-up is a major morale booster after a hard day’s tense life. Attempt to be sexual beings and not ",Angels", in that marriage

Five) Resort to God often and less to fellows to solve your marital disputes.

6) Let the women ", Make up", their characters much more than they make up their bod.

Indeed, marriage is not for puny boys because petite boys fight to forgive, request everything speedily, lack the patience to wait, have so many friends etc.

Make every effort to let that marriage work and may God help us.

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Nice reading. MARRIAGE IS NOT FOR Puny BOYS! .

I used to interpret the telling ",Marriage is not for petite boys", to mean petite boys in terms of age, until I visited a female mentor that has bee. See more

I used to interpret the telling ",Marriage is not for puny boys", to mean puny boys in terms of age, until I visited a female mentor that has been in marriage for 47 years.

I asked, so what is the secret of your over 47 years in marriage?

Beaming, she retorted, My son, the expectations you bring into marriage will either spell its doom or success. I married my spouse without expectations of loving his money or buying cars for me, but with time, my patience, hard work and God-fearing attitude yielded results of getting cars, houses, taking care of our children and all that.

You see, if a married lady keeps on nagging in the house, she thrusts the spirit of her hubby from the home. If you make the man unhappy, you make the house awkward.

So, I married without high expectations from my spouse but simply to make him blessed always.

Yes, for the past 47 years, I would be the very first to get up from bed and the last to go back to bed. I bath the kids, do devotions with them, prepare breakfast for my hubby and boil hot water for him to bath. I metal his clothes he would take to work, smooch him and wish him the best in his daily endeavours.

I asked my old woman, so then what does the man do in comeback? She laughed all heart and hearty and replied, You see, this is the mistake you youthful ones make in marriage.

YOU DO SOMETHING FOR YOUR Hubby OR Wifey AND EXPECT SAME Prize FROM HIM OR HER, THIS IS WRONG!

When it becomes your attitude to only please your spouse or wifey always, the other person responds naturally. Indeed, if nothing touches the palm tree, it doesn’t rattle.

She continued, my son, never carry ",how rich or poor your family is", into marriage. After all, you knew very well the status of your family and determined to marry that man or woman.

Love only compels/leads would-be couples into marriage but it doesn’t sustain marriage. Rather, understanding, patience, communication and most importantly, forgiveness sustain every marriage. High expectations are the symptoms of divorce in marriages.

Sometimes you hear, I want to marry a mother, a business fucking partner, God fearing person etc. You cannot get all your expectations in one person. With time and depending on your relationship, you may get some. So minimise your expectations in marriage.

To cut the long story brief, as too many cooks spoil the broth, she concluded on the mistakes a duo should fight back at all cost in marriage:

1) Never say you have made your wifey or spouse somebody from a nobody. It hurts. God only used you as an agent for transformation, give the glory to God.

Two) Let the man be head of the home no matter the financial, economic, physical and emotional health situation prevailing in the duo’s life whilst the woman exercises diligence in the use of the tongue.

Trio) Having children should not be the ultimate objective in marriage. They are given to enhance your marriage. When God delays in providing you a child, have every reason to live a blessed marital life.

Four) Hookup is a major morale booster after a hard day’s stressfull life. Attempt to be sexual beings and not ",Angels", in that marriage

Five) Resort to God often and less to fellows to solve your marital disputes.

6) Let the women ", Make up", their characters much more than they make up their figure.

Indeed, marriage is not for puny boys because puny boys fight to forgive, request everything speedily, lack the patience to wait, have so many friends etc.

Make every effort to let that marriage work and may God help us.

Graciously Share to Bless Others

Nice reading. MARRIAGE IS NOT FOR Puny BOYS! .

I used to interpret the telling ",Marriage is not for petite boys", to mean petite boys in terms of age, until I visited a female mentor that has bee. See more

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