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Thank you Toni! I have written a bit of a “cue card” for when we get to talk to eachother. I do not want to get jumpy and just blur something out that might be offensive or rude.
Last time I had to do this was with a very, very nice man who, on paper, was everything I wished – there was 0, zilch, nada chemistry. I found myself not wanting to reaction his calls nor was I excited to see or hear from him. And that was unfair to him and me. So _ I called him up one day, got his VM and left him a message that basically said what I said in my previous post. We had only gone out Trio or Four times over a 6 week period so I was fine with the phone call thing..
Yea! I know what you mean about zero chemistry and not even being a little excited about observing him or hearing his voice on a VM or anything. I was even beginning to get annoyed by his VM’s. I attempted to make myself feel something – he is nice. but nope! NOTHING. I would not want someone to be with me if they felt ZERO for me – and I feel he and I deserve to be with people that we are genuinely interested in and that they have an equal interest in us as well. So. it might be a bit ackward to say goodbye but he will be free to find that special someone and I also can proceed with my search..
Yes – I have to feel that passion with someone – and if it’s not there, nothing else will override that – at least for me..
I’m sure he will appreciate a courteous and respectful sendoff. However, I dont think you need a cue card to simply state “I dont think we have what it takes (chemistry-wise) to form the basis of a good dating (online dating with Match.com) relationship”. If you concentrate on what the two of you are together instead of him alone it will be the truth and also help him save face.
English is my 2nd language so when I get jumpy I leave behind how to speak – any language. I am using the cue card just to practice, I am not going to read it to him.
If he is someone that will remain in your social circle, then something like “You’re a superb boy and I like you a lot but I choose that we remains just friends”.
Thanks for clarifying. I didnt know that English was not your primary language, so please excuse my post if it sounded confusing. I guess my point was to keep it brief and sweet, but more importantly – because you are part of the same social group it would be better to refer to the chemistry inbetween the two of you not being right for dating (online dating with Match.com) rather than to talk about him or any of his qualities.
Yes, I do know what you mean. No sense in getting into the specifics of why I cannot see myself being his gf or having him in my individual life. .
Be very complimentary about him and what a good boy he is but say that your initial instincts were right – the two of you have a superb friend vibe. so you hope you can proceed spending time together on that level..