Jenny is a doll who loves many things. She loves street foods, traveling, nature, music, cats and dogs! She’s crazy about purple &, writing!
Now, I have to spill a secret. I’ve always liked older guys. I’ve always had a crush on my professors back in my college days. And, when I say ‘older’ I meant guys who are 10-15 years older than I am and not the ‘’old’’ type who are literally old and saggy. I am now in my late 20’s, thus, I am referring to dudes who are in their 40’s. I am always drawn to them, Maybe it is their maturity, or the way they express their opinions on difficult topics or it is the way they carry themselves or maybe it is because they are already self-sufficient.
Some people tell me that I may be just looking for a father-figure but I am not. There are a lot of good reasons why some women like me choose older studs and I am going to enumerate some of them here.
“Date studs and not boys. And when you ultimately know the difference inbetween the two, you are now ready for a deeper commitment”
1. Experienced and cultured.
Dudes are like wine. They get better with age. Their practices in life, at work and in previous relationships have instructed them a lot of life lessons to make their situation better than before. They are more mature now to understand that things don’t always happen the way they want them to and so they are more understanding and patient with their playmates. They know what they want and they go for it. They are very certain and so they carry themselves very well especially in public. They are generally well-mannered. They have been to several places in the past and so they know a lot of things about other cultures. Older studs are also better when it comes to treating their finances. They have lived long enough to be self-sufficient and to know how to treat their money very well. So if you are dating an older stud, do not be wasteful of money. He earned every penny through hard work and he wouldn’t like it if you spend it carelessly on things that don’t indeed matter.
Two. Women date older fellows for practical reasons
Now this is the financial aspect which, by the way, is an significant aspect of every relationship. Let’s face it, women look for studs who have the capacity to support financially. It is not about being a gold-digger or a social climber. It is all about practicality. When you commence a family for example, it is significant that the man is able to provide security. A self-sufficient woman will not lightly lodge for anything less than what she earns. Except of course when she is truly madly deeply in love with a boy who earns less than her but that is not what this article is about. Now, in logical perspective, a typical dude of late 20’s will have less savings or less wealth and assets accumulated compared to what he’s become 20 years later. That is considering that he continued to work and save as he gets older. In this regard, an older man has enough assets and money in the bank to support a family. This is why women go for financially-stable dudes instead of those who are still generally kicking off with their career. Money is not everything in a relationship but without money the relationship is trussed to fail at some point especially when there are kids involved in the relationship already. I am not telling that women should depend on their fucking partner financially but some societies consider it ideal for women to stay at home and take care of the kids and the spouse will work for the family. And women date in order to find a man whom she can live her life and begin a family with. Women don’t date just for the sake of dating. They are also thinking of the future.
Trio. Older Fellows May Be Better in Terms of Pleasing and Treating Women
I am pretty sure this statement will get a lot of comments and disagreements because women generally have different sexual preferences and I respect that of course. In my opinion tho’, older fellows have had their fair share of both short-lived and more stable relationships and this gives them a bit of an advantage when it comes to treating relationships. Their previous practices have helped them learn what women generally want and what makes women glad. They are able to control their sexual urges more responsibly and they know which figure part is sensitive to touch etc. Not only do they know more in bed but they also understand women a little bit better. They are more sensitive to their playmate’s needs. They are generous in bed and they are sultry paramours. Older fellows tend to be more romantic as well. They have good sense of humor that does not involve shaming their friends or whatever. Lastly, they are less aggressive than junior dudes.
Four. Older Fellows Generally Look for a Serious Relationship
Dudes mature much later than women and normally middle age in boys is the age of maturity. This is where they seek for a more stable and healthy relationship. Playtime is over and it is time for them to be serious with their life. This is the age where they usually have pieced their life altogether and they are now ready for a more serious and deeper commitment. Women who are tired of short-lived and immature relationships can find a more satisfying and more stable relationship with an older fellow than a boy in his late 20’s for example. Junior dudes are still in their vigorous stage where they are lightly tempted. They are still at an age where they love to explore and attempt different things before lodging on something more serious. So if a female feels that she is ready to tie the knot, or when she is ready for a serious commitment and embark a family, a junior man is just not the right person for her.
Five. Older Dudes Have More Sophisticated Taste
When it comes to the finer things in life like wine, food, beer, traveling and clothes, older boys tend to choose the more sophisticated ones. Very first, they can afford it and 2nd they just know that it is better quality. They also know however, that when it comes to food and drinks quality does not always come with a price. You don’t need to eat at a 5-star restaurant to be able to love your food. You can find an affordable place that serves a 5-star quality food and drinks with much better service as well. When travelling, older fellows avoid touristy places because they know that they won’t get authentic products for the right price and they won’t be able to love the scenery with the entire crowd wandering around. They understand “value for money”. They are blessed to sit in one corner where you have all the view to yourself …now that takes careful planning, timing and practice. and older dudes as experienced travelers, know that.
6. Older Boys are Pretty Good in the Kitchen as Well
I love to cook and I am very good at it. But I am still always amazed at my playmate because he can cook very well. I find it very sexy when a man knows how to cook and not just a ordinary dish like boiled potatoes and fried eggs. I mean some dishes like beef bourguignon and potato au gratin and stuff like that. I truly admire dudes who can cook and tend for themselves. It is fairly seldom for junior guys these days to be self-sufficient especially in my own country. They always rely on their mothers to cook for them and take care of all their needs. And that is not my cup of tea.
7. Older Boys Generally Live a Healthy Lifestyle
They love to drink wine and beer and yes some of them smoke as well but they know their limitations unless of course when they have difficulty coping with their own problems which I believe is an exception because older boys can generally treat their problems because they are mature enough to solve them. Older guys have at least one or two sports that they truly love doing. They maintain an active lifestyle apart from the office. They like spending their money on things like travel and spare parts for their car or bike and not on gadgets and game consoles which the junior dudes are more inclined to buy.
What do you think is the greatest challenge when dating an older person?
8. Older Boys are Not Fond of Parties Anymore
I am not a party-girl and I never liked parties and big crowds in the very first place. Even in my teenage years, I was like an old woman in a youthful woman’s figure. Junior dudes like parties and booze and noisy music and I just can’t bring myself to relate to them even if I force it. I just don’t like it. I also don’t find myself liking the company of junior guys and talking to them endlessly because their choice of topics does not jive with my interests. I find their topics a little bit shallow for my taste. Junior studs usually talk about women, cars, technology and gadgets. Older studs on the other arm can talk about politics, religion, sexiness, economy, relationships, food and travels which are exactly my interests.
In my practice, once you embark dating an older man the guys within your age bracket becomes either immature or too dumb for you.
Some of my friends do not understand why I liked older fellows. Some people think i am a gold-digger. But no matter what people say i just can’t force myself to have a fulfilling and healthy relationship with a fellow close to my age. Either they are too immature for me or too clever and serious for my liking. I find older dudes to be ideal for me. My playmate right now is 15 years older than me and i am so glad. He is permanently supportive and he encourages me to be the best version of me. He compliments on the aspects that i am lacking. Albeit it may be a bit difficult to keep up with his tempo sometimes i believe i am where i should be. I don’t need to make people understand but i want to make things clear. some women are just too brainy and mature for junior fellows to treat.
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Excellent article. I am not in any serious relationship at the moment, but I do casually date. I see mostly older guys, the oldest being 26years my senior. I have always found older guys attractive. And now that I’m casually dating older guys ive realised many things about myself and the misconceptions of hookup that I was always given as a teenage. My casual paramour who is 53, is one of the most caring and gentle guys I have ever met. He listens and he likes a good mature conversation. And he is also very voluptuous and playful too, his mannerisms and way of speaking very erotic and interesting. Physically fit and fairly classy, he is so good in the bedroom too, if not the best I’ve ever been with. It is a pleasure to send time with him eating good food and conversation, while mixing in some voluptuous banter and flirting. This is my practice, a I totally relate to this article.
Helped with understanding why people make hurtful comments, age is no barrier as I see it, it just hard when you work in the same company and people watching all the time and dealing with his previous baggage can be difficult at times and the feeling that you are being used for his own build up
Older man 40 years older than myself love conquers all .
Superb article. I agree 100%
Jennifer Gonzales Five months ago from Manila, Philippines
Hmmmmm even before the age of technology, fellows are already seen as providers for the family. Most of successful societies today at some point had a patriarchal system and even now a lot of societies are still using this system. You cannot blame a woman who wants to ensure a good future for her children by choosing a man who is very much capable of providing for the family. For me, boys who treat women as hookup objects and nothing more is worse than a woman who treat dudes as ",vehicles for procreation and financial resources",.
So to speak Zaratustra was right: women treat fellows as vehicle to give them kids and financial resources.
Juanita Fuentes 6 months ago
I agree it is why I married a 55 year old I am 34 and very blessed I made this choice.
Hello .I am one of your mature Welsh British. GENTLEMAN .
WHO has matured like good wine and fine Brandy . I dress immaculately
And have a passion for good quality cars and live by the sea.
Yes I have had the wifey the kids and
I also cook exstreamly well and have good taste in things in general and yes
I am solvent .I am well traveled And yes I am and have always been Romantic youthfull at heart but nobody s
I know women realy well!
And yes I choose junior women
Five to 30 years junior than my self .
But someone who not stupid and
behaves like a ditzy child .!
But who is intelligent and fantastic company mature and wise with a good true heart and would not play about with other fellows .
Hard to find in this day and age as alot of them are gold diggers !
A Genuin person all through is like gold dust .
But I agree with your comments in your movie Clair .
The prince of the Oceon.
Paula Ten months ago from Beautiful Upstate Fresh York
Jennifer, This is a wonderful and well-written hub. I agree with the reasons you have stated why youthfull women choose older guys. In my youth, I was very much attracted to older fellows, mainly because I felt boys closer to my age bracket were fairly immature.
However, now at my age. I’m afraid any studs much older than I. are dead!! How sad is that? I’m now zeroing in on the cuties junior than myself! LOL Why not? Peace, Paula
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